Many boys and girls make a good first impression at first, but then they just talk about it and then nothing happens. Then why don't they stay together? Not because there is no heartbeat, so, how does chat just let a person have the feeling of heartbeat?
Very important point is to break your subconscious solidify thinking, so that the other side will have the feeling of heartbeat! A lot of people are too polite, too polite, easy to feel distance. I believe most people have had the feeling that close people are too polite to you and that you can feel distant.
What is solidified thinking? A few examples: when someone says "thank you," you mean it. When your friend cuts the apple and hands it to you, you say, "thank you." this is the subconscious mind solidifying. When Russian women tells you something bad about her work, you ask her to be open-minded and tolerant of the people around her.
So what isn't a knee-jerk mind-set? When others say "thank you", you make fun of "how to thank". Friends cut the apple to you, you said "you are so good, I was moved almost tears out"; When a girl tells you something, you should say: "the boss has no eye power, when to change him" why to break the subconscious solidification thinking is the key to people's heart?
Because emotions are emotions, not arithmetic. 1+1=2. This is known as fixed. You say "thank you" and I say "You're welcome".
How to chat have the feeling of heartbeat? Have normal times all saw joke, why you can laugh heartily, because had happy mood? In fact, the principle of a joke is to break your subconscious solidification thinking, but in the "unexpected, reasonable" sense of humor.
How to chat have the feeling of heartbeat? Only when you break the subliminal solidification of thinking can you better arouse her resonance in the emotion. Only when you have the opportunity to shine a hot spark, can you have the feeling of heartbeat!